Tomisin Adebari

MAINTAINING FRieNDSHIPS when life gets busy

Keeping up with people is hard. Like genuinely hard. Case in point: I hadn’t talked to…
Me, Myself, and I (Twin Post)

Hey guyssss… surprise surpriseeee two posts in one day (national holiday or what??) I told you…
Your Friends Won’t Be Down the Street Forever

I always wonder what you guys (yes you, you reading this… youuuuu) do in your respective…
New Year, Same Me, Clearer Purpose

If you’re anything like me, you probably spent yesterday which somehow already feels like last year…
When Imposter Syndrome Comes Knocking (Again): A Grad Student’s Survival Guide

Let me start with a confession: I have imposter syndrome. Present tense. HAVE. I started grad…
The Weight of Being “Average” at Everything

For the past week, I’ve been drowning in a familiar feeling, the exhausting guilt of having…
THE GIFT OF PERSPECTIVE

Some life lessons come in classrooms. Mine came at a bus stop on a gray Tuesday…
When It Feels Like Everyone Else Is Winning

You ever look at someone and just say to yourself, “I wish I had her life… then…
You Deserve to Take Up Space

There was a time I believed being quiet was the safest thing I could do.I thought…